Lanae St.John
Sex Coach
Author of Books about Sex & Relationships
“St. John, a sex educator and mother, offers a cogent, warm, and good-humored guide for parents preparing for the inevitable talk with their children about sex and sexuality.”
Critic's Review, The BookLife Prize
Hi, I'm Lanae. I'm so happy you're here!
Welcome to The MamaSutra! I am a certified sex coach, and writer. I specialize in helping adults navigate the complex and often overlooked world of sexuality and intimacy. Whether you are looking for practical tips and advice, or seeking a deeper understanding of your own desires and needs, I am here to support you on your journey.
What sets my writing and coaching apart is my unique blend of expertise, compassion, and humor. I believe that honesty, vulnerability, and openness are essential for growth and healing, and I strive to create a safe and welcoming space for all of my clients.
I look forward to connecting with you and supporting you on your journey to a more fulfilling and satisfying life.
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Book Reviews
"Really enjoyed this book. It offered a new outlook and approach on how to have "the talk". A little difficult to put into practice but getting easier each time, Dr Lanae gives the tools to make it a success! Loved the storytelling and real examples the book provides. I wish I had found it earlier for the tweens but it's never too late. I will be gifting and suggesting to all parent friends!"
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"Dr. St. John's book is a great resource for parents looking to educate their kids about healthy sexuality in a shame-free way. It covers the 5 pillars of healthy sexuality: Communication, Respect, Consent, Pleasure, and Fantasy. The book helped me have new and important conversations with my daughter about sex and why it should be pleasurable for her. Highly recommended for any parent."
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"I wasn’t going to buy this book thinking that since I have a toddler I still had time before we had to talk about “The Talk”. Boy, was I wrong! After reading, I saw the importance of starting to teach consent and boundaries since a young age. I feel that I am now prepared to guide my son through it by having small yet powerful conversations setting the groundwork for his teenage years. If you have kids, you need to get this book!!! Highly recommend it."
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"This book is a must-read for all parents. It emphasizes the importance of being prepared to answer kids' questions about sex at any time and provides age-appropriate, honest answers. The author also stresses the role that parents play in shaping their child's understanding of sexuality and self-worth. The book is filled with practical tips and examples, and promotes the idea of positive parenting. A great resource for any parent facing 'the talk.'"
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BookLife Prize - 2019
Semi Finalist - Non-fiction
"St. John wisely approaches the topic of the 'the sex talk' with the understanding that parents often need an education, too. Her work is sensitive, progressive, and highly readable."
~Critic's Review, The BookLife Prize (by Publisher's Weekly)
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