My Quote in ApartmentGuide’s Moving In Together Checklist

Moving in together is a big deal—and if you’re looking for moving in together tips that go beyond who gets which drawer, keep reading.

Sure, you’re combining furniture—but you’re also combining habits, boundaries, and “who left these dishes here” energy.

When ApartmentGuide reached out for insights on how to make sharing a space easier (and sexier) for couples or roommates, I said yes—and not just because it’s my jam.

The timing was perfect: we were preparing for a move ourselves! So yeah… I was living it while writing it. 😅

Moving In Together Tips That Actually Work

Here’s what I shared:

“Blending decorating styles in a shared space works best when it’s guided by open communication—just like in relationships.”

“I suggest starting with a conversation about each person’s “must-haves” and “nice-to-haves.”

“Each person’s unique style can shine through in select, individual pieces. This approach allows couples or roommates to create a space that feels both personal and connected,” I told them.

Looking for more moving-in-together tips that actually work in real life? This one’s a must-read.

Read the full ApartmentGuide Moving In Together Checklist article here

P.S., This isn’t just for 20-somethings moving in with IKEA furniture and a dream. If you’re building a life together—first time or not—but communication is still the most important of all your moving in together tips.

Ready to move in—and move forward?

💬 Book a premarital coaching session with me if you want to make sure your communication, connection, and vision are aligned before you unpack.

Or grab my book, READ ME: A Parental Primer for “The Talk,” if you’re also navigating parenting under one roof.

Let’s make your next chapter one you actually want to live in.

xxoo,
Lanae

About the Author The MamaSutra

Dr. Lanae St.John is a Diplomate of the American Board of Sexology and certified sex coach with a background in sexology and a passion for helping people improve their sexual health and relationships. She is the author of "Read Me: A Parental Primer for "The Talk"" and the upcoming "You Are the One: How stopping the search and looking inside will lead you to your romantic destiny," and is committed to staying up-to-date on the latest research and trends in the field. Dr. St.John aims to share her knowledge and expertise in a relatable and approachable way through her blog on themamasutra.com.

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