There are many different components to healthy sex, whether you’re having it with yourself or someone else. Things like open communication, love, connection, variety, versatility, and safety come to mind. When it comes to variety, I’m referring to the lack of routine. It’s natural for long term couples to fall into a rhythm, but keep it fresh and new by trying new positions, new locations, new role playing themes and most of all new toys. Using sex toys is a great way to keep things exciting, bring you and your partner closer together and achieve a totally new level of orgasm. So if you feel like you haven’t finished Christmas shopping for your partner yet, add some of these toys to the list and watch as your sex life goes from good to amazing.

A sex swing–
This splurge of a purchase is great for couples looking to try lots of new positions or for couples who have a hard time getting into certain positions. You can hook the swings to the ceiling or get a stand for them. They’re easy to pack up and put away or have out at all times. They are designed for one or both of you sit in at a time and allow for easy access due to the suspension. Sex swing reviews on Adam & Eve always note how the swing changed their life and brought their sex life back to full force.

Sex Furniture–
Companies like Liberator design furniture to intensify your sex. The furniture comes in a variety of shapes (and colors) and is made with dense foam. Each piece is designed to make sex more comfortable while simultaneously make it more pleasurable. It even lets you go deeper and comes with a cover that can be removed for easy clean up. Two wins all around. I named some of my favorite Liberator products in the latest SexxxTalkRadio episode.  Check them out!

Christmas Lingerie–
If you’re shopping for the woman in your life, get her some Christmas lingerie. This time a year spurs a lot of fantastic Santa, Elf, and present inspired lingerie that is as beautiful as it is magical. Maybe give this one a little early so you can Santa up your Christmas Eve.

Under the Bed Restraint Kit–
With all this year’s focus on Fifty Shades of Grey, give your partner what they really want and dominant them. Works great on men and women and is sure to keep your partner begging for more. Team it up with a blind fold and your partner will have all of their senses heightened.

Lube and Cock Rings–
Need a few little somethings for your lover’s stocking? These are great small toys that make a huge impact. Look for water-base lubes and dual vibrating cock rings. They’re sure to put a smile on your partner’s face Christmas morning.

Whatever you get your partner, you should tie it into a new New Year’s resolution. This year, resolve to have sex more often and to continue to try new things. It will be a present to both of you.