Listen, “intimacy resources” sounds like a term a robot in a lab coat came up with. But here’s the deal: sometimes, you need a little help in the pleasure and connection department. And no, I don’t mean cosmic energy or just communicating more (though that helps too). I mean actual, tangible tools that can take things from meh to oh-my-god-how-did-we-not-know-about-this-sooner?
I’ve handpicked the best products, courses, and tools that I trust, use with my clients, and know actually work—not because an algorithm told me so, but because real people (myself included) have put them to the test.
And before you ask—yes, these are sex-related, and no, your nosy neighbor won’t find out unless you tell them.
Some of these are affiliate links, meaning I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only recommend what I truly believe in!
Pleasure & Intimacy Products (AKA, the Fun Stuff)
Some things in life just work better when you have the right equipment. And if Amazon can deliver bulk paper towels, a life-size cutout of Danny DeVito, and a live ladybug farm to your door, why not a little something to improve your sex life?
My Amazon Store – A carefully curated collection of books, intimacy products, wellness must-haves, and other fun things you didn’t know you needed.
Adult Toy Box – Sensation Play Collection – The ultimate collection of tools for spicing things up and exploring touch in a whole new way.
Not sure where to start? Here’s a tip: pick something that makes you say, “Huh, that sounds interesting…” and roll with it.
Sexual Education & Relationship Growth (Because Google is Not a Sex Coach)
If you’ve ever found yourself frantically Googling, “Is this normal??”, first of all—yes, probably. Second of all, wouldn’t it be nice to have trusted, expert-led resources instead of scrolling through some random dude’s Reddit thread?
Growth & Connection Hub on Etsy – I’ve moved my digital guides, worksheets, and tools to Etsy! Digital guides, worksheets, and tools for intimacy, communication, and all the important stuff you never got a class on in school.
Looking for something you’ve seen here before? It’s likely in my Etsy shop!
Click the banners below to explore these trusted courses.
Once you’re on their site, search for “Enroll” to get started.
Erotic Massage Courses – The hands-on (literally) guide to learning how to touch, relax, and completely wow your partner. Turns out, great touch is a skill, not a talent. Who knew.
Orgasmic Yoga Techniques – Not your average yoga class. This is all about deepening pleasure, sensation, and body awareness—without ever stepping foot into a studio or dealing with hot yoga sweat.
It’s not porn, but people who are squeamish might confuse it with porn. Let’s just say, if you’re open to learning, these courses will teach you things you’ll wish you knew sooner.
Crave – Pleasure That Passes the Vibe Check
You know that one drawer where all the fun stuff lives? Yeah, Crave is here to make sure you don’t need to hide it.
These gorgeous, luxury pleasure products look so sleek you could wear them to brunch, and no one would suspect a thing. (Unless they also own one. Then you just share a knowing nod.)
Vesper Necklace & Cuff Bracelets – Stunning, discreet pleasure products that double as jewelry. Because why shouldn’t your accessories be both beautiful and functional?
Psst… I have a little something extra for you. Want free shipping on your order? Message me here and I’ll hook you up.
Shop Love Crave JewelryMelt Couples Massage – Because “You’re So Tense” Is Not Foreplay
You know what’s not sexy? A half-hearted shoulder rub followed by, “Your turn?”
You know what is sexy? An actual, good massage—the kind that melts away stress, feels incredible, and (bonus!) might just lead to something more.
Melt Couples Massage—teaches real massage techniques—not just the “I hope this leads somewhere” kind, but the actual relaxation kind. Because sometimes, the secret to intimacy isn’t making a move—it’s helping your partner feel so relaxed that they finally want to get close.
When touch feels good without expectations, connection happens naturally. And if sex follows? Great. If not? You still gave an amazing massage and banked major partner points.
Try Melt Couples MassageStamina & Erectile Function Training Tools (Yes, This Is Science)
If you’re working on lasting longer, rebuilding confidence after ED, or improving control, welcome to actual stamina training—no magic pills required. These tools, when used correctly, can be life-changing (and no, I don’t say that lightly).
They might not seem intuitive at first, but in coaching, I teach clients how to use them for real results.
Stamina Training Unit Fleshlight
Fleshlight Mount
Fleshlight Liberator Mount
You could try to “figure it out” on your own… or you could work with me and actually make progress. Your call. Book a coaching session with me
Foria – Because Your Body Deserves Better
If you care about what goes in your body, you should probably care about what goes on it, too. Enter Foria, the brand that treats intimacy products like actual wellness essentials (because, shocker: they are).
Made with clean, body-safe, botanical ingredients, Foria’s products are like the organic, fair-trade, artisanal version of your usual intimacy essentials—except they actually work.
🔗 Explore Foria Wellness – Botanical-based intimacy products designed for pleasure, relaxation, and next-level self-care.
Because I’m an official Foria Brand Ambassador, you get 20% off your first order when you shop through my link.
The Grande Finale (AKA, Your Call To Action)
Tools are great. Knowing how to use them? That’s where the magic happens.
Want to take your intimacy game to the next level? Book a session with me and let’s turn good into mind-blowing.
xxoo,
Lanae